Despite the recession putting pressure on our pockets, research from the
Post Office® today reveals that money truly isn"t everything, with just 18
per cent of Scots saying they would like to be left money when a loved one
dies, even though 29 per cent of people want to leave cash behind as
inheritance.*
In reality many people in Scotland would prefer to be left an emotional
asset, such as a treasured possession (37 per cent) or love letter (24 per
cent), than a financial inheritance, revealing a potentially upsetting
disparity between what people want to pass on and what their loved ones
actually want.
Some of the most popular things people want to receive from loved ones:
Treasured possession
Love letter
Video recording
Surprise gift
Audio recording
Favourite song
Favourite film
Gemini Adams, grief expert and author of Your Legacy of Love: Realise the
Gift in Goodbye, said: "When it comes to preparing for the "worst"
typically we"re encouraged to write a will to share our financial assets,
but what our surviving loved ones really need is a continuing bond, to help
them remember us, and how much we cared.
"By leaving emotional assets, together with our financial assets, we can
share our total "wealth". Preparing for the end of life isn"t very
appealing, yet by taking advance action we can all realise the gift in
goodbye, and leave a legacy that can help to alleviate the grief and
suffering of our family long after we are gone."
It's not just money that people don"t like discussing. When planning a
funeral 30 per cent of adults say the arrangements have caused family
feuds, and an additional 15 per cent said not knowing what a loved one
wanted in terms of a funeral or life celebration also concerns them.
Furthermore, over 10 per cent of Scots worry they will not be able to pay
for the send off they think loved ones deserve, which is especially
worrying given that seven in 10 (70 per cent) people aged over 50 have
failed to make any financial provisions.
Duncan Caesar-Gordon, Head of Protection Products at the Post Office, said:
"Although many people do not want to be left any money, they could incur
funeral bills, which is a worry for millions of people who want to provide
the best possible funeral or life celebration in remembrance of loved one.
"The reality is that funerals are one of those things that nobody wants to
prepare for and as a result put little or no financial provision aside for
it. This means that should the worst happen, family and friends will be the
ones left to pay the bill. Ultimately, this could mean that you don"t end
up with the funeral of your choice. However, this can be avoided with a
simple plan, like Post Office Over-50s Life Cover, costing from just £7 per
month."**
The Post Office Over 50s Life Cover is guaranteed for all UK residents aged
between 50 and 80 with no medical questions or checks needed. Customers
can choose how much cover they want with premiums starting from as little
as £7 a month.
To find out more about Post Office Over 50s Life cover or any other Post
Office insurance policy, log onto www.postoffice.co.uk, call 0800 096 5484
or visit your local branch.
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